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Find the theme
Thirteen weeks ago, I posted a list of my personal commandments and my advice on how to write your own. Once a week for the next twelve...


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Say yes
What do a game of Battleship, an overpriced notebook, and a Monday night movie have in common? They are all requests from my family I...


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Do the right thing
I've generally been known as an honest and stand-up person. I learned the importance of integrity from both of my parents, and it's...


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Choose the bigger life
For the past 8 years, becoming a speaker has been my dream. I love teaching and inspiring audiences of all sizes. It is my very favorite...


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Embrace
"Everyone is so touchy-feely here." That is how I was quoted at the retreat I attended my freshman year of college, which was full of...


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Lean into discomfort
Finish this sentence: I could never ______________________. It has been my experience that any time you hear yourself saying "I could...


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Look up
Have you experienced this phenomenon? When things are going well, everything goes really well? And when things are going badly,...


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Let it go
Do you have a "let go" list? A place to record the slights and frustrations that somehow seem to steal too much of your attention? Think...


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Consider the impact
"How can I learn to slow down?" I asked a friend. "I've been working on talking more slowly and moving more slowly for over half my life....


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Have fun first
I know I'm not the only person to wake up with a to-do list scrolling through my head. Those of you who share the affliction might be...


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Be the light
I was feeling pretty blue this fall. First the time change, then disappointing election results, then turning 40 (and feeling decidedly...


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Do it now
Does this happen to you? You remember something you need do. You think to yourself, "I should do it now" but immediately replace the...


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Look forward
"What are you looking forward to?" For over a year my friend Lisa would ask this at the end of our every-other-month calls. Often the...


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Identify your personal commandments
I had been feeling a bit lost since turning 40 last fall and wanted to do something intentional to reclaim my own priorities and sense of...
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